If you’re like me, your stomach dropped the first time you were asked to be a dom. I like to consider myself a gentle soul, so the thought of hurting my partner freaked me out. Or maybe you’re more of ...

I accidentally crossed paths with my first Dominant online when I was going through a divorce seven years ago. My first thought was to run away fast: He must be some whip-toting freak with a dungeon ...

This series of posts on human sexual desire has uncovered many intriguing ironies and paradoxes. But perhaps the most fascinating and beguiling among them are the apparent contradictions that exist in ...